Things to do when Flirting
- Say "Hello" with energy
- Shake hands (depending on circumstances)
- Make immediate, direct eye contact
- Be Confident! People are drawn to other people who have confidence. Confidence radiates like the sun, others can sense when you have it. Ask questions that would not make you look like an idiot.
- Listen! You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak! Listening is a true art, and the best conversationalists all have great listening skills in common.
- Have something to say by keeping up-to-date with current affairs.
- Play with a piece of clothing for example, stirring a drink, adjusting your hair, etc.
- Whisper so that she can lean closer to you
- Be Spontaneous! Don't think too hard about what you're going to say - just really listen to what the other person is saying and let yourself respond naturally. Don't worry about what might happen next - live for the moment! You might not get another chance to talk to the person! So go for it!
- Create and use nicknames like for example, my darling angel, my sweetie etc.
- Drop Names to show your connections to friends whom the person you are flirting with knows so as to put her at ease.
- Wear, bring, or carry something unusual so as to attract his or her attention so that she will be fascinated with you.
- Smile! A smile makes you look friendly, confident and approachable. People smile at people who smile! So smile! It's contagious!
Things Not To Do When Flirting
- Don't depend on others to make things happen
- Don't tease.
- Don't cling
- Don't dwell on your performance
- Don't be nervous
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